My child was diagnosed with autism. What do we do next?
A diagnosis is a starting point, not a plan. Here are the steps California families usually take after one, in the order that tends to save time, and what each office can and cannot do for you.
Center-based ABA · Oakland & San Jose · Reviewed against official sources
The short answer
Get the diagnostic report in writing, ask for a recommendation for behavioral treatment, then work three tracks in parallel: early intervention or the school district (depending on age), your regional center, and your health insurance.
Rori Care provides center-based ABA therapy in Oakland and San Jose. We are in-network with the commercial plans listed on our insurance page. We do not currently accept Regional Center or Medi-Cal funding, and this guide says so plainly so you can plan around it.
Step 1: Get the diagnosis and the recommendation in writing
Ask the evaluator for the full written report, not only a summary letter. Insurance plans, the school and the regional center will each ask for it. It should name the diagnosis (autism spectrum disorder), say who evaluated your child and what tools they used, and describe your child’s strengths and needs.
Also ask whether the evaluator recommends behavioral treatment such as ABA, and get that in writing. California’s autism coverage law describes covered behavioral health treatment as prescribed by a licensed physician or developed by a licensed psychologist, so a prescription or recommendation from your pediatrician or evaluator is a normal part of the paperwork.
Keep every report in one folder, paper or digital. You will use it for years: for insurance, for the IEP, for any regional center application.
Step 2: If your child is under 3, call Early Start
California’s early intervention program is called Early Start, for children from birth to age 3. The Department of Developmental Services (DDS) says anyone can make a referral, including parents and doctors, by contacting the local regional center or school district to ask for an evaluation. The state Early Start FAQ lists a toll-free Baby Line, 800-515-2229.
After a referral, the program has 45 calendar days to assign a service coordinator, get your consent, complete the evaluations and, for an eligible child, write an Individualized Family Service Plan. DDS states there is no charge for the evaluation, assessment or service coordination. Eligibility is based on developmental delay or risk, so a child can be referred before a diagnosis.
At age 3, the service coordinator helps you plan the move to preschool special education or other services. If your child is under 3, do this alongside your insurance steps below, not instead of them.
Step 3: If your child is 3 or older, ask the school district for an evaluation
Children with a disability that affects learning are entitled to a free public education that fits their needs, delivered through an Individualized Education Program (IEP). The request starts with a letter to the school district, which should be dated and in writing, asking for an evaluation for special education and attaching the diagnostic report.
California law (Education Code section 56043) sets timelines: the district proposes an assessment plan within 15 days of a referral, you then have at least 15 days to consent, and the IEP meeting follows within 60 days of your consent, not counting school breaks longer than five days. Ask the district to confirm its dates in writing.
An IEP and ABA are different things. The IEP covers what the school provides at school; ABA from a health plan is a medical benefit delivered at a clinic. The state coverage law says a health plan’s autism benefit does not reduce a school district’s IEP obligations. Sharing the IEP with your ABA provider helps the two sets of goals fit together.
Step 4: Understand what a regional center is, and which one is yours
Regional centers are nonprofit agencies that the state contracts to coordinate services for people with developmental disabilities, under the Lanterman Act. There are 21 across California. After age 3, autism can qualify a child, when it causes a substantial disability; the DDS eligibility handout points to Welfare and Institutions Code section 4512 for the rules. Eligibility is decided by the regional center, not by this website.
The DDS regional center lookup assigns by county. Alameda County (Oakland, Berkeley, Alameda, San Leandro, Hayward, Fremont, Union City and neighbors) is served by the Regional Center of the East Bay, 500 Davis Street, Suite 100, San Leandro, 510-618-6100. It also serves Contra Costa County. Santa Clara County (San Jose, Santa Clara, Sunnyvale, Campbell, Cupertino, Los Gatos and neighbors) is served by San Andreas Regional Center, 6203 San Ignacio Avenue, Suite 200, San Jose, 408-374-9960. It also serves Monterey, San Benito and Santa Cruz counties.
Regional centers generally treat private health insurance as a first source of payment and fund what other sources do not (Welfare and Institutions Code section 4659). If you apply, ask your service coordinator how their services and your insurance fit together.
A note for families who already have a regional center funding hope: Rori Care does not accept Regional Center funding yet. If a regional center is your only way to pay for ABA, ask the center for its list of vendors for your area.
Step 5: Check your health insurance for ABA, and learn how it works
In California, state-regulated health plans must cover behavioral health treatment for autism, which includes ABA (Health and Safety Code section 1374.73 for health plans, Insurance Code section 10144.51 for insurers). Employer plans that are self-funded are generally governed by federal law instead, so ask your plan or your employer which type you have. The cost page linked below goes into deductibles, out-of-pocket limits and what to expect.
- The family gets the diagnostic report and the recommendation for ABA.
- The provider checks your benefits: plan type, network status, deductible, copay or coinsurance, and whether authorization is needed.
- A Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) assesses your child and writes a treatment plan with goals and recommended hours.
- The provider sends the plan to your insurer for authorization. The insurer decides how many hours it will approve, and that can be fewer than recommended.
- Therapy begins. Under the state law the plan is reviewed at least every six months, so authorizations are renewed on a schedule.
Our guide on how to pay for ABA in California covers what you pay, prior authorization and private pay in more detail. The insurance page lists the plans Rori Care works with.
Step 6: What to ask any ABA provider before you choose
You are choosing a team you will see several times a week for a long stretch. These questions apply to us and to anyone else you talk to.
- Who writes my child's plan, and what credential do they hold? How often do they observe my child directly?
- Where does therapy happen: at a center, at home, or both? Do you do telehealth? (Rori Care is center-based only; we do not provide in-home or telehealth ABA.)
- How many hours do you recommend, and what is that based on? What happens if the insurer approves fewer?
- Which plans are you in-network with, and which funding sources do you not accept?
- How will I be trained to use the strategies at home? How often do we meet?
- How do you measure progress, and how often do I see the data?
- Who handles authorizations and renewals, and how will I know a renewal date is coming?
- What are your hours, and what does a typical weekly schedule look like?
Where Rori Care fits, and where it does not
Rori Care runs two centers: 3300 Webster St, Suite 210 in Oakland and 125 Ciro Ave, Suite 240 in San Jose. Therapy is center-based and led by BCBAs. We are in-network with Aetna, Anthem Blue Cross of California (through Carelon), Blue Shield of California, Kaiser Permanente through Catalight, UnitedHealthcare (including Optum, UMR and Surest), Cigna / Evernorth and TRICARE West. Exact coverage depends on your plan, and we verify it for free before your child starts.
We do not currently accept Regional Center funding or Medi-Cal. If those are your only options right now, we are not the right provider yet, and we would rather say that than waste your time. If you have a qualifying commercial plan, a free 30-minute consultation is the next step. If your child has not been evaluated yet, our page on autism diagnosis and evaluation describes the next step.
Questions parents ask
My child was just diagnosed with autism. What should I do first?
Get the full written diagnostic report and ask the evaluator or pediatrician for a written recommendation for behavioral treatment. Then, depending on age, contact Early Start through your regional center (under 3) or ask the school district for an evaluation in writing (3 and up), and check your health insurance for ABA coverage.
Where do we go after an autism diagnosis in California?
Three places, usually at the same time: your regional center (Regional Center of the East Bay for Alameda County, San Andreas Regional Center for Santa Clara County), your school district or Early Start for educational services, and your health plan for ABA therapy coverage.
Which regional center serves Oakland and which serves San Jose?
Per the California Department of Developmental Services, Alameda County, which includes Oakland, is served by the Regional Center of the East Bay, and Santa Clara County, which includes San Jose, is served by San Andreas Regional Center.
Does Rori Care accept Regional Center or Medi-Cal funding?
Not currently. Rori Care accepts the commercial plans listed on our insurance page and private pay. Medi-Cal and Regional Center funding are not accepted yet.
Do we need a diagnosis before Early Start?
No. Early Start looks at developmental delay and risk factors, and anyone can refer a child under 3 to the regional center for an evaluation. The program has 45 calendar days from referral to complete the evaluation and, for an eligible child, the service plan.
Can my child get both an IEP at school and ABA through insurance?
Yes, they are separate. The IEP covers what the school district provides at school. ABA from a health plan is a medical benefit. California's autism coverage law says the health plan benefit does not reduce a district's IEP obligations.
Sources
Checked against these official sources on November 10, 2026. Laws and program rules change, so confirm current details with the agency before you rely on them. This guide is general information, not legal or medical advice.
- California DDS: regional center lookup — www.dds.ca.gov/rc/listings/
- California DDS: Early Start FAQs for parents and providers (December 2025) — www.dds.ca.gov/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/EarlyStart_FAQ_202512.pdf
- California DDS: Lanterman Act regional center eligibility criteria (March 2025) — www.dds.ca.gov/wp-content/uploads/2025/03/CaliforniaRegionalCenter_EligibilityCriteria_20250304.pdf
- California Health and Safety Code section 1374.73 — leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=HSC§ionNum=1374.73
- California Education Code section 56043 — leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=EDC§ionNum=56043
- California Welfare and Institutions Code section 4659 — leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=WIC§ionNum=4659
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